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February 28, 2024 by

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@bradballard & I were on the verge of divorce not

@bradballard & I were on the verge of divorce not that long ago...⁣
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Neither of us had been honoring each other’s love language.⁣
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We were both actively collecting evidence to fuel our own narrative.⁣
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Since neither of us was getting what he or I wanted, we both felt we were right & the other was wrong.⁣
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As a matter of fact, consistently acknowledging each other’s love language has been one of our biggest challenges all throughout our relationship.⁣
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But what’s also true is that we love each other deeply.⁣
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We know we’re soulmates & also meant to be the biggest teacher for one another throughout this journey of lifelong partnership.⁣
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We asked for support, both leaned into our edges, & chose to be responsible for what we’d generated individually & collectively.⁣
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Little shifts started to occur. We recognized & celebrated the changes.⁣
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This created compounded interest & momentum really began to pick up for us!⁣
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I’m a straight shooter. Marriage is NOT easy.⁣
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Anyone who pretends that their union is great ALL the time is a big, fat liar liar👖🔥 :)⁣
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But a soulmate partnership is worth the rollercoaster (if you can both navigate the ups & downs in an emotionally intelligent way).⁣
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The inevitable dips make the upswings & peaks exhilarating. The challenges are what build character in a union.⁣
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If you’re up against your edges with your partner, lean in.⁣
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Be honest & responsible.⁣
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Love yourself enough to express your innermost desires. It’s not wrong to want to be loved in a certain way.⁣
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Don’t be afraid to ask for support & allow your community to reflect back what’s in y’all’s blindspots.⁣
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There is no need to have shame about your challenges or hide them from the world.⁣
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We’ve ALL been there!⁣
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I see you, and I love you. ✨🤍🪽⁣
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P.S. Thank you @veranayelapa for creating such a magical space for us to deepen our love even more! And @itscassidycallan & @bradjbarnes: thank you for getting married in a mystical love vortex!

I have a STYE in my eye & I don’t know why… (n

I have a STYE in my eye & I don’t know why… (new rap song about abundance - not styes 😂 is coming soon!), but I’m still enjoying my best life in paradise with my 🍯. ⁣
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We took 2 delayed flights to Puerto Vallarta, drove 40 mins south to Boca de Tomatlan, & voyaged on a 20 min boat ride to Playa Isabel to finally 😅 arrive @veranayelapa. ⁣
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We’re here to celebrate the union of @bradjbarnes & @itscassidycallan.⁣
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We’re in absolute heaven on earth. ⁣
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I didn’t realize that my soul needed to sleep in a bougie hut with no walls, on a king size bed with a mosquito net, and waking up naturally to café con leche with the ocean as our view.⁣
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It’s been a full recharge so far & we haven’t even been here 24 hours yet.⁣
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I’m prepping for Miss Cassidy’s bridal blessing tomorrow as she transitions from maiden to wife.⁣
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It’s an honor to be holding this space for her as she embarks on her sacred journey of lifelong transformation called: marriage. 😍⁣
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I’m so grateful for the blessings in my life from God/Universe/Source (aka GUS) that have allowed us to be here as our biggest Level 1 training @ascensionleadershipacademy since arriving in ATX is happening literally as I type this. 🤯⁣
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Thank you thank you thank you. 🙏🏼 ⁣
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Sending love to you all with a reminder to create space for as many magical experiences as possible in life. ⁣
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If you don’t have the time & space to enjoy the fruits of your labor, then is it actually worth it (lyrics from my first single PERMISSION 🤩)?⁣
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I love you. ✨🤍🪽⁣
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P.S. If you’re curious about what the situation is with my hair, watch my stories to be in the know before they disappear!

The kiss at the end… 😍🥺😭 Secure attachm

The kiss at the end… 😍🥺😭 Secure attachment style parenting for the win! 🏆⁣
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Jett has been a roaring 2 year old for about a week, and he’s way too cool 😎, but still loves his mama more than anything.⁣
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I’m so grateful that he also loves Jenny (our amazing nanny!) as much as he does so I can have a balanced life.⁣
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She is a godsend!! She also speaks to Jett mostly in Spanish so my little man is bilingual!⁣
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I also speak to him in both English & Spanish, and I feel solid in how we’re setting him up for life. ⁣
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People often ask me how I do it all, and I say: “It all gets done, because I don’t do it all. I ask for support so I can truly have it all.”⁣
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There is no way I/we could have accomplished everything in my life without the support of an amazing team - including mentors - in each area:⁣
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Our relationship, all of our companies/brands, childcare + early education, health/wellness/rejuvenation, & the maintenance of our home + our legacy/finances. ⁣
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Understanding this was a game changer for me. Systems, strategy, and staying in all of our respective zones of genius - that’s literally how WE do it all. ⁣
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You can do anything, but not everything, at least not all at once. ⁣
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Send this to your favorite SuperMom who is holding space for so much! We all need this reminder!

Jett asked me to do this. How could I say no? If y

Jett asked me to do this. How could I say no? If you’re a mom - esp. a mom of multiple boys 😅 - you 100% know “momming” is hard af. ⁣
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There are countless moments where you have no idea how to make it all work. ⁣
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But you do. And you do it with miraculous magic. You make it look easy to everyone else.⁣
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You even have other moms wonder HowTF you do it all.⁣
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It’s a tall order:⁣
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~ 𝘣𝘦 𝘧𝘶𝘭𝘭𝘺 𝘦𝘯𝘨𝘢𝘨𝘦𝘥 & 𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘬𝘪𝘥𝘴⁣
~ 𝘢𝘭𝘴𝘰 𝘣𝘦 𝘢 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘥𝘦𝘥𝘪𝘤𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘥, 𝘱𝘢𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘵𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘧𝘦⁣
~ 𝘢𝘭𝘴𝘰 𝘧𝘶𝘭𝘧𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘱𝘶𝘳𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘰𝘸𝘯 𝘴𝘢𝘯𝘪𝘵𝘺⁣
~ 𝘢𝘭𝘴𝘰 𝘣𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘊𝘌𝘖 𝘰𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘳𝘦 𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘴𝘦𝘩𝘰𝘭𝘥⁣
~ 𝘢𝘭𝘴𝘰 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘴𝘶𝘳𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶’𝘳𝘦 𝘨𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘺 𝘰𝘧 𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘵⁣
~ 𝘢𝘭𝘴𝘰 𝘤𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘦 𝘴𝘱𝘢𝘤𝘦 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘢𝘭𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘦 & 𝘨𝘳𝘰𝘸𝘵𝘩 ⁣
~ 𝘢𝘭𝘴𝘰 𝘴𝘱𝘦𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 + 𝘴𝘩𝘰𝘸 𝘶𝘱 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘨𝘧𝘴⁣
~ 𝘢𝘭𝘴𝘰 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘬 𝘰𝘶𝘵, 𝘵𝘳𝘢𝘷𝘦𝘭, 𝘫𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘯𝘢𝘭, & 𝘨𝘦𝘵 𝘣𝘰𝘥𝘺𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘬 ⁣
~ 𝘢𝘭𝘴𝘰 𝘣𝘦 𝘢𝘯 𝘦𝘮𝘰𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘭𝘭𝘪𝘨𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘑𝘦𝘥𝘪 𝘴𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘬𝘦𝘦𝘱 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘵 𝘵𝘰𝘨𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘪𝘵 𝘫𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘴𝘦𝘦𝘮𝘴 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦 𝘩𝘪𝘵𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘧𝘢𝘯 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘢𝘵 𝘰𝘯𝘤𝘦 🫠⁣
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This is just the baseline. Buckle up for when life ALSO throws you unexpected curveballs.⁣
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But the truth is, you’ve made it through 100% of your hardest days. So you got this.⁣
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All of it.⁣
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You can do anything, but not everything. At least not all at once.⁣
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Life is not meant to be done alone. You’re worthy of asking for support.⁣
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Anything that’s destined for you will not escape you. It’s ok to go slow. ⁣
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Remember that your kids will never be this small again. When you’re with them, be with them 100%. ⁣
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Please know that I’m saying all of this as a reminder to myself as well.⁣
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I don’t have it all mastered like a perfected art (unless I do? 🤔).⁣
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Just out here doing my best (like you!) & that’s more than enough.⁣
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I love you. ✨🤍✨⁣
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(Share this with your favorite supermoms!)⁣
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For years I was on a constant man hunt. I couldn’t figure out why ALL of my relationships FAILED.⁣ 😭
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I had this fantasy of being at farmer’s market & reaching for the same 🍎 as my destined soul mate. 😅 (SWOON)⁣
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But that never happened.⁣
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I thought I needed to be the one to find my person. I tried dating men who were very similar to me.⁣ I didn’t understand polarity AT ALL.
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It wasn’t until I found myself in a training that changed everything for me. ⁣
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I realized & discovered that I was already WORTHY of being FOUND by an incredible man who would love, honor, cherish, & respect me!⁣
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I proclaimed this out loud to The Universe as I knew my partner would find me that same year.⁣
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@bradballard found me on the good ol’ match dot com THREE DAYS later!⁣
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Ladies, set the sword and armor down. End the pursuit.⁣
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Trust that your person will find YOU when you claim that you’re already HER (the future version of yourself) NOW.⁣
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I love you. ✨🤍✨

Confession: I’ve recently realized something…⁣
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I’ve noticed how often I just simply do things for my kids (put on shoes, get them dressed, arrange their food on a plate, brush their teeth, & the list goes on and on) because - let’s be honest - I’m clearly faster & more efficient.⁣
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If you’re a parent, I’m sure you can relate to this. 🫠⁣
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Jett commonly says: “I do!” (not sure where he learned that except I said the same damn thing when I was 2 - literally wanting to do everything on my own! 😂)⁣
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At some point, they get to fully learn to do “all things human” without my assistance.⁣
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I’ve been more and more intentional about allowing the time and space for my boys to lead themselves, even if they spill, put shoes on the wrong feet, or trip and fall down.⁣
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We can’t prepare the road for our children, but we can prepare our children for the road.⁣
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He’s also been saying: “I help!” as he wants to assist me in everything: making coffee, cooking, baking, getting myself dressed, and also doing my hair (even if it’s his own crazy design).⁣
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This is supporting me in strengthening my own levels of surrendering, allowing, & being patient.⁣
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This is a reminder that you’re already doing a PHENOMENAL job.⁣
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We’re all just out here trying to figure out how to be the best parents we can be.⁣
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NO ONE has it all figured out.⁣
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No one.⁣
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Send this to any mom who needs this reminder!⁣
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I love you. ✨🤍✨

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